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Post by sammss on Dec 21, 2006 20:19:04 GMT
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Just wondering. When does the level of arguing become unacceptable?
Once a week? Twice a week? Twice a month? Twice a year? Twice in 7 years......................?
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Post by candd on Dec 21, 2006 20:48:59 GMT
;D Just wondering. When does the level of arguing become unacceptable? Once a week? Twice a week? Twice a month? Twice a year? Twice in 7 years......................? All down to the people involved Linda ? Me and SWMBO have maybe 1 or 2 a YEAR Its just that we talk to each other when something bothers either of us and we can then discuss it, never see the need for an argument (though my sister in-law and her husband are at each others throats every day but have been together for 27 years now ) What are the arguments about, silly things, minor things or major things ? Silly things = why argue Minor things = Try talking about it Major things = now is the time to sit down and have a serious chat If your arguing over the silly little things in life then I would have a good look at the relationship as it doesn't look as though things are going very well. If your both building things up and THEN arguing you must sit down and talk to each other and sort things out BEFORE they get to the argue stage. HTH Colin
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Post by Peter on Dec 22, 2006 10:45:38 GMT
Depends on the length rather that the frequency. Once a month is expected for obvious reasons, over an hour long unacceptable, men like to make a point and drop it, women go on and on and on in circle's. torture someones ear for 5 or 6 hours is enough to incite murder. My Ex-wife and I never had a row in 27 years and divorced, Anette and I row at least every 6 to 8 weeks and seem O.K. as we get issues out in the open and sort it. Why. WANA ARGUMENT ABOUT IT? But NEVER go to bed on an unresolved row.
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Post by candd on Dec 22, 2006 12:13:17 GMT
But NEVER go to bed on an unresolved rowVery Very True
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Post by Deleted on Dec 23, 2006 13:58:06 GMT
mmmmmmm only when simon comes round
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